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Heartiste: If society doesn't mistreat women, they'll all get fat and disagreeable

Damn those uppity women.
Damn those uppity women.

It’s rare that they come out and say it this explicitly, but here’s Heartiste, arguing that unless society treats women badly they won’t give him a boner. In a brief post about “Dread Game” — his term for manipulatively gaslighting women to prey on their insecurities — he offers up this bit of shitbag philosophy:

Dread game on a societal scale keeps women in line, always working hard to please men lest they be cast to the icy wastelands with the rest of the anti-feminine rejects. The opposite of Dread Game — Coddle Game — relaxes selective pressures on women to stay feminine and thin and agreeable. And so what you see now in the decadent, coddling West is what we get: Ballbusting fat feminist cunts and careerist androgynes.

So brave, Heartiste, so brave.



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Jenny (@dontgiveah00t)

The funny thing is that heartiste is a completely unremarkable middle aged guy who… lives off his sister!! A feeeeemale. LOL

Is this actually true? If it is, then I feel really sorry for that poor woman – stuck supporting a man who think people of her gender should be shamed and made to feel miserable and insecure on a regular basis. And likely it’s because as his sister she feels socially obligated to do so and would be shamed (certainly by Heartiste himself at the very least) if she withdrew said support.

7 years ago

Actually, I think Theon Greyjoy/Reek qualifies as a male rape and torture victim, too. Still doesn’t invalidate the critique, but incidents of male sex abuse and rape aren’t COMPLETELY ignored in GoT.

Nonetheless, I’m migrating to other shows that are far less rapey. The final straw for me came when the producers turned a non-rape scene from the books into a rape scene, didn’t at first seem to realize they’d done so, and then acted all cheeky when they got called on it.

7 years ago

Hey, so speaking of strategy games: I was just at a focus group for a strategy game and I totally got to tell them “Dude, stop making these boring generic Europe-inspired fantasy games where everyone is white and there’s like one female character.”

7 years ago

Hooray. So they’re going to make a boring generic Europe-inspired fantasy game with two female characters instead?

Jenny (@dontgiveah00t)

Also, is Heartiste the guy who proposed using that ‘but what if I walk out that door and you could never open it so you’d never see me again?’ tactic on women to associate the natural fear of being caged (‘you can’t open the door no matter how hard you try’) with the fear of losing him (‘and you would know that you would NEVER see me again, just like that imaginary friend of mine that just died in a car crash’)? Or is this yet another person who admits that he can’t handle a confidant secure woman with sources of support that are not him and finds an unhappy, insecure one he can easily manipulate infinitely more preferable?

7 years ago

Jenny, yep, that was Fartiste.

7 years ago

“I will not play at tug o’ war
I’d rather play at hug o’ war,
Where everyone hugs
Instead of tugs
Where everyone giggles
And rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kisses
And everyone grins
And everyone cuddles
And everyone wins.”
-Shel Silverstein

Love it!

7 years ago

I’m still getting used to king myself, and sometimes it goes badly.

I’m still getting used to king but everything goes really well.

… Wait, we’re not talking about the same thing, are we?

It’s really cheering to know that just by existing, just by being happy and not giving a shit about fitting his fuckability scale, I’m helping wilt the Fartiste boner.

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