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The #FeministsAreUgly hashtag on Twitter confuses and frustrates some of the internet's most dedicated feminist-haters

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Not actual feminist

#FeministsAreUgly is confusing a lot of people, misogynists included. The Twitter hashtag – which took off yesterday and is still going strong, if not quite so strong, today – was originally started not by misogynistic trolls but by two feminists, @LilyBolorian and @Cheuya, who intended the hashtag to be a way for feminist women to celebrate their own beauty, whether it conformed to conventional (and generally white-centric) standards or not. As Bolorian put it,

https://twitter.com/LilyBolourian/status/497453684440444928

https://twitter.com/LilyBolourian/status/497398674054725634

Women responded at once by doing just that, and the hashtag was quickly flooded by feminist selfies. This being the internet, it was also flooded with comments from misogynists and trolls. Given how many of the latter were posted, many feminists on Twitter initially assumed it was just another outburst of internet misogyny; it took a little while before the feminist origins of the hashtag became widely known.

So how did the devoted antifeminists of the manosphere and the Men’s Rights movement react to the hashtag? Some responded with unabashed glee. The regulars on Roosh V’s forum reposted the selfies of some in women posting in the #FeministsAreUgly hashtage, mocking them as fat, lazy “cunts.”

One commenter offered this helpful observation:

A lot of fat crazy feminists are also obviously on heavy psych meds. One of the tell tale signs is volatile temperment and grandiose delusions. The weight gain is often a side effect of some of the drugs. So next time you run into some fat cunt spouting feminist rhetoric just keep in mind she could literally be crazy (bipolar) too.

Another waxed conspiratorial:

Feminist women are trying to turn themselves Idols to be worshiped.

It all ties into the writings of Alice Bailey and Madame Helena Blavatsky.

But elsewhere in the misogynistic online subculture sometimes called the manosphere the responses were a tad more complicated and conflicted.

On the Red Pill subreddit, the hashtag seemed mainly to make the regulars angry. A fellow calling himself MajorStyles won himself some upvotes for a comment complaining that

these bitches have gained control of the media for the past 40 years. Enough is enough. They have desecrated the moral landscape of this country to a barely recognizable wasteland. Fat tattooed harpies who shit on men of value.

Time to call them on their shit.

Over in the Men’s Rights subreddit, the regulars were wary, many of them afraid that the hashtag was some sort of sneaky feminist trap to make them look bad … I guess by luring them into posting what they really thought?

SleepingSheeple 18 points 20 hours ago  Probably started by feminists trying to manufacture victimhood.      permalink     save     report     give gold     reply  [–]ArchangelOKC 4 points 11 hours ago  A false flag attack, basically

Among the assorted antifeminists I follow or otherwise encounter on Twitter, there were two basic responses. Some flatly declared that yes, feminists are ugly:

https://twitter.com/aaron_clarey/status/497801834548199424

https://twitter.com/FemsHaveBallz/status/497601470527983616

Others, a bit more circumspect, suggested that the real problem is that feminists are ugly on the inside.

A Voice for Men “Honey Badger” Hanna Wallen tried to have it both ways, posting a Dworkin joke aimed at a feminist who, like Dworkin, has dark curly hair, followed by a series of earnest and often incomprehensible tweets trying to prove that feminists (including me, specifically) have ugly souls.


I can only imagine how tough it’s been for MRAs to read through this hashtag. MRAs constantly attack feminists as fat and ugly; feminist women who aren’t fat are accused of having “manjaws” or other allegedly unflattering features. But many MRAs are also vaguely aware that constantly attacking their opponents as a bunch of uggos doesn’t exactly seem very statesmanlike. And so, many MRAs bite their tongues.

It’s tough being a men’s human rights activist. Sometimes they have to pretend that their opponents are actually human too.

 

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Phoenician in a time of Romans
Phoenician in a time of Romans
11 years ago

LBT:

And yet, I have absolutely no trouble understanding my sexual preferences aren’t universal. How on EARTH did heterosexual men take over the planet again?

We keep auxiliary brains in our penises as emergency thinking superchargers.

pallygirl
pallygirl
11 years ago

Aha, so that’s why male circumcision is *at least as bad as* FGM: the former is brain surgery.

/sarcasm

Fibinachi
11 years ago

Stop the presses! Pallygirl outdid Fibinachi! Someone get her a trophy!

Well
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yet now it’s
I was going for
the thing! The thing was! The thing!
evo psych history!
spears!
I was the thing… I was ma.. I was… point! I had a point I was

I bet pallygirl has cooties yes that’s what’s going to get me out of this

—————-

Oh okay then

Fibinachi
11 years ago

dammit.

And it was such a good trophy too!

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

Sorry fibs, your link be broken.

pallygirl
pallygirl
11 years ago

Was that a borked link to a commemorative coin or plate, or a rick roll?

/side eyes Fibinachi

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

Do I need to draw a Mammoth of the Thread trophy?

serrana
serrana
11 years ago

Damn, Fibi, that URL was 15487 characters long.

cloudiah
11 years ago

@LBT, yes please. XD

kittehserf MOD
kittehserf MOD
11 years ago

@LBT:

I saw! Thank you, Kittehs! It brightened my day! 😀

Glad to hear it, Rogan – and I just replied to Mac’s naughty reply! 😀

Art depicting non-skinny women as beautiful doesn’t count because back then they didn’t have mass media so artists just didn’t know what the people wanted to look at.

@WWTH: Mind boggling levels of evo-psych stupid. I don’t suppose this jackass stopped to think that artists needed patrons to pay for what they produced.

@cloudiah, that tumblr is hilarious! I knew the Boss would have to be in there somewhere, the faces he pulls.

Seconding the Mammoth of the Thread trophy idea! 😀

Johanna Roberts
11 years ago

I’m really not sure how I feel about this. On one hand, it’s great for people to embrace their looks on the other? Beauty is not all there is to life and beauty doesn’t validate or invalidate words or philosophy. And it gets doubly complicated for people like me who ARE ugly, but it’s not any moral failing that makes me this way, it’s a disease run rampant on my body. I don’t post selfies though because of my view points and feminist and liberal outlook I know there’s going to be someone out there who turns it around to how I look, like that’s all there is. Yeah, own your looks but don’t throw those of us who aren’t conventionally attractive under the bus to do it.

blahlistic (@blahlistic)

http://www.knucklepit.com/_tken%20kesey4.jpg
No throwing anybody under the bus.

kittehserf MOD
kittehserf MOD
11 years ago

If I had to volunteer as the Bus Sacrifice, that would be the bus to do it for.

Fibinachi
11 years ago

Was that a borked link to a commemorative coin or plate, or a rick roll?

/side eyes Fibinachi

A specially minted coin, just for this occasion.

pallygirl
pallygirl
11 years ago

See, you’re one I trusted. Hmmm…. a specially minted Rick Roll coin?

Robert
Robert
11 years ago

One of the issues I had to deal with wrt self image is that the men to whom I am usually attracted look very different from me. So seeing myself as attractive was a challenge. I’m getting better at it, after about thirty plus years.

cassandrakitty
cassandrakitty
11 years ago

@ Robert

It worked exactly the other way around for me, oddly enough. When I realized that many of the women I find attractive look quite a bit like me I was able to stop beating myself up about every tiny little thing I deemed imperfect.

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

I didn’t even draw dicks on it!

pallygirl
pallygirl
11 years ago

It’s missing something… Rick Astley.

LBT (with an open writeathon!)

Sorry, you’ll have to copy/paste his face over the kitty yourself.

katz
11 years ago

Trophy! Who gets it?

Fibinachi
11 years ago

That’s useful, LBT! Nice one. 😀

cloudiah
11 years ago

LBT MADE A TROPHY!!! :: squees ::