
Life is tough for dudes in our evil misandryarchy. Even dudes who just want to help littler dudes find themselves blocked by evil women.
Take, for example, the sad tale of a public-spirited MGTOWer who calls himself TheDisgruntledGentleman, and his thwarted attempt to join the Big Brother/Big Sister program. No, not the TV show, or the creepy dystopian leader/voyeur from 1984 — the mentoring program that pairs adults with at-risk kids. Let’s let him explain:
So, instead of just hand wringing about how males are targeted and denigrated within all aspects of life, I decided one way of trying to help would be to join the Big Brother Big Sister program. The first meeting I went to explained that there are twice as many boys looking for a match than there are girls. They said it was partly because more females than males volunteer. They didn’t mention how most boys have a mother in there life but no father because of the misandric divorce courts but I digress…
Oh, dear. We’re not off to a good start here.
Anyways, as part of the process, I had a one on one interview with a female member of the organisation to assess if I was suitable to be a Big, and if so, they wanted to know about me so they could match me with a little. I mentioned that I carry a firearm everywhere I legally can, I also wanted to know what protections were in place to protect me from unfounded accusations, and I expressed how I couldn’t be with a Little if his father had been forcibly removed from his life because of the vindictive actions of the mother. I think the final one sealed my fate however.
Yeah, why on earth would the program reject a gun-toting, woman-hating, self-described “disgruntled gentleman” whose only question for the organization, apparently, was about what would happen if he was accused of child molestation or abuse?
I’m not particularly upset at being rejected because after looking into it more, the activities deemed appropriate to do with your Little seem somewhat feminine, but it just further hammers home that even when you try to help because there are boys out there screaming for some positive male role models in there lives, you’re only allowed to show them masculine things that females deem are appropriate. It just makes me sick.
Hate to break it to you, dude, but you’re not actually a positive role model for anyone.
In the comments at MGTOWforums.com, where TheDisgruntledGentleman posted his tale of woe, others stepped forward to offer their own, er, critiques of the Big Brother program. “I’m really not surprised by the outcome of this at all,” wrote Mpav8r.
Basically, for our purposes, without intending any disrespect to the pious, we can compare the Big Brother service to a kind of prostitution agency, specializing in providing uber-manginas to attend to the fatherly duties of the harlot’s absconded alpha daddy, or the cuckolded beta wallet in exile; furthermore these manginas are free-range certified not to be paedophiles, or likely to have any real parental influence in lieu of the mother’s. Big Brothers is basically a volunteer organization that makes the logical connection between single moms and pathetic beta chumps trying to score brownie points, and attempts to exploit it for the perceived benefit of the children.
Most pathetic is the fact that these volunteers know for a fact that they will not be getting any tail as part of the deal. Unless you have a bleeding heart for abandoned bastards, you’d have to be a fool to waste your time on such a fool’s enterprise.
Based on what you said in your post, I would wager that the women in charge likely factored you as an armed misogynist pedophile with a chip on his shoulder. I would have gone wearing an old navy outfit and talked about flower arranging and self-esteem.
Relic, meanwhile, suggested that the best way to help out young boys today is for MGTOWers to keep being the woman-hating assholes they already are. Well, that’s a rough paraphrase. He phrased his advice slightly differently:
For me personally, I have zero interest in helping single mothers raise their kids. If she wanted a positive influence from a male, maybe she and her kind would not fuck us over at every turn so dad stays in the home. It’s only when society passes the breaking point things will get better for men. Stalling this only prolongs the suffering. Until then, I’m in the shadows.
I’m willing to bet that many men have been falsely accused of crimes trying to give back to these programs. No fucking way I would expose myself to that nightmare to help a single mother. Allow the whole thing to come crashing down while putting good information out there for truth seekers to get educated. It’s the absolute best thing we can do for boys.
I do agree that the best thing MGTOWers can do for boys is to stay as far away from them as possible.


I seriously considered writing an ongoing fanfiction where Fletcher was a very canny serial killer, possibly with some hypnotic abilities or something to explain all of the confessions. I wish I had more time in my life. 8(
@Deoridhe
I’d read it. 🙂 The other fun theory I’ve heard is that Jessica Fletcher is a manifestation of death itself and infects those around her so that they commit murders they otherwise wouldn’t.
That sounds like my theory about Midsomer Murders – Tom Barnaby did it all!
Or possibly Joyce Barnaby, since she had a habit of being on the scene when it happened.
Maybe it was a team effort? 🙂
Probably! It kept him in business, that’s for sure.
@Some Gal
It’s been a while since I’ve watched Murder, She Wrote but now that I know the series is on Netflix, I should check them out. My dad used to watch those all the time when I was a kid.
I attended the wedding of a friend from work about 10 years ago that was held in Mendocino, a little coastal town in Northern California, a hundred or so miles north of San Francisco. Another friend and I drove up from L.A. for the wedding, and as the town came into view, it became obvious that we had just traveled to Cabot Cove (because Mendocino is where all the Cabot Cove exterior shots were filmed).
That experience was a bit stranger than I would’ve expected. I think I’d like to visit the Hotel Portmeirion, where the original Prisoner TV show was filmed. I think that would top Mendocino / Cabot Cove for “iconic, yet slightly odd, TV locations that you can visit IRL.”
I read the section of this prospective mentors demands and conditions to my office. Not a single person thought that he was rejected because of systemic prejudice against men.
Weird, huh?
I think we need a Red Flag gif to link people too, but I’m not good enough with visual arts to make one myself. I’m imagining something giant and blinky that just says RED FLAG. We could use it every time someone writes something like “I mentioned that I carry a firearm everywhere I legally can, I also wanted to know what protections were in place to protect me from unfounded accusations”.
@Jake
My mom and I watched together when I was a kid. I was probably a little too young for it (as I discovered when rewatching and finding that the “scariest” death to me as a kid was in the midst of one if the funny episodes), but I really loved it anyway.
I grew up in CA and Mendocino is one of those places I’ve been to, but barely remember. (I think we had friends in the area? I remember having Kraft Mac and Cheese, which my mother normally didn’t let us have, more than I remember anything else. 🙂 ) If I ever get back to the area, I would live to go and actually remember it.
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/3/3f/Red_flag_left.jpg
mdevile:
It just shows how the feminazi world gummint conspiracy really is everywhere!
Welcome, btw. 🙂
There are lots of reasons people are denied being Bigs. Being hateful towards a Little’s parent, especially if you haven’t met him or her before, is going to get you shunned. Like duh.
“I mentioned that I carry a firearm everywhere I legally can, I also wanted to know what protections were in place to protect me from unfounded accusations” HAHAHAHA OH MY GOD THESE PEOPLE
THEY REALLY DON’T SEE HOW THEY’RE THEIR OWN ENEMY
How about you keep your weapons paranoia out of the question and concentrate on the fact that the man is clearly insane, dangerous, and hates women?
We don’t need any “help” by you scaring off possible allies.
just a suggestion.
Pro-gun, pro-women, and anti-mentally-ill — dangerous + hates women =/= insane.
And who’s this “we”?
Oh, put a sock in it, gun lobby dude.
How about you take your ableism and cram it sideways, “ally?” I see pro-gun is before pro-women in your name, so I guess where you fall on things. Fuck off.
“Weapons paranoia,” that’s rich. If anyone’s got a weird weapons fixation, it’s the US gun lobby.
I am not now nor have I ever been an employee of any arms company or a member of any gun organization.
I did once attend a meeting of the Pink Pistols, gay armedself defense rights organization.
does that count?
I also have no wish to have anyone who thinks that the idea of being armed 24/7 is a good thing to introduce into the BBBS program as an ally. The kids in that program have enough shit to deal with already without dumbasses trying to indoctrinate them with pro-gun propaganda.
Wait, in my tired cabin fevered state, I missed the fucking obvious. How is this guy dangerous of not as a result of him being armed? Misogynist sure, but how’s dangerous follow from that if you remove the gun from the equation?
(And what the ever loving fuck makes him “insane”?!)
I’m taking my night time crazy pills and going to bed, goodnight guys! (By all the gods, by morning, can the snow be removed so leaving the house is possible?)
‘Paranoia” is a pretty good way to describe the mindset of anyone who thinks that they need to be armed at all times.
“Insane” and “asshole” – not actually the same thing!
Sleep well, Argenti.
Niters, Argenti!
Go away, pro-gun yahoo. This is not the forum you’re looking for.