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Why is it worse for women to cheat than for men? “Because Penis,” Redditor explains

Cloudy with a chance of … you don’t want to know

By David Futrelle

From the Unpopular Opinions subreddit, a rather ingenious explanation as to why it’s much, much worse for men (well, cis men) to cheat on (cis) women than it is for women to cheat on men:

Girls cheating on guys is 10 times worse than guys cheating on girls because Penis. (self.unpopularopinion) submitted 15 days ago by OpinionManVIP Practically speaking, the main pieces of equipment involved in the act of sex are he penis and the vagina. When a guy cheats and has sex with a different girl, it’s just another hole. Sure maybe it can be tighter, but it’s pretty much the same deal. When a GIRL cheats on a GUY and experiences a new penis, she experiences something different that her boyfriend can NEVER give her. If the guy she’s cheating with is bigger, smaller, or even just shaped in a certain way there are things every guy has in his arsenal that are his signature strengths / weaknesses. And for females, that makes the experience of cheating so much more to be guilty about.

This was an unpopular opinion even for Reddit, with everyone in the comments arguing against this unique insight from OpinionManVIP, who not only seems to have never had sex but also to have never watched any porn. Seriously, dude, if you believe this you are Very Bad at Sex.

H/T — r/TheBluePill

275 replies on “Why is it worse for women to cheat than for men? “Because Penis,” Redditor explains”

….Speechless….

This is so NOT the thread I wanted to be the first commentator on.

But I am.
*Sighs*

Me: Siri, what is “special pleading”?
Siri: (displays this Reddit post)
Me: Oh. I see. Now I understand. Thank you, Siri.
Siri: No problem.

Now, I don’t remember if I got this from a commenter here or elsewhere, but it made me laugh, so I did save it. Apologies for the non-credit; I need to start writing down attribution.

“So having multiple sex partners “stretches out” a vagina…obviously, multiple sex partners wears down a penis. Like sharpening a pencil. Except it probably gets thinner as well.

So, a big penis means that person’s a virgin, and a small penis means they’re a slut. Got it.”

Never has the opinion of “women are just interchangeable holes with no discernable differences between them” been more clearly laid out. I hope this dude sticks to his fleshlight.

Not only does he think it’s totally cool to cheat on women, but he thinks of women as interchangeable holes?? Someone get me his number! *Wolf whistles*

But I thought evopsych teaches us that men are constantly in need of the new and different and that’s why they can’t expected to be monogamous? If a hole is a hole is a hole and they’re all the same and the person attached to the hole doesn’t matter, why can’t they just stick to one?

This also kind of undercuts the popular misogynist theory that having sex with a new man drastically changes the size and shape of the vagina. If all vaginas are basically the same, that means that it doesn’t actually matter if we sleep around, right?

If she truly is experiencing “something her boyfriend can never give her” then maybe it’s for the best she’s found greener grass elsewhere.

And what is it with the holes and the stretching that these guys are just fixated on? o.O

there are things every guy has in his arsenal

“Rose petals, candles, 155mm Howitzer…Let the romance begin!”

Kupo,

I’ve seen that particular thread before, and I am *truly* staggered at what some people believe.

I swear, I feel like I live in a Monty Python movie, sometimes.

Kupo that was a fascinating insight into the mind of a trollolol. I say that because I simply cannot accept that they actually believe this. Flat earthers have nothing on this bizzare fantasy.

Hey guys, sorry for off topic, but is anyone able to talk economics and its relationship to social issues, as well as if how we value economic success vs societal success?

There are many questions to which “because penis” is the right answer, but not in this case.

A fascinating look into the psyche of the MRA. “Men are all unique and have individual differences, women are literally interchangeable holes.” Generally they dress it up better.

Off-topic: Arrived at the office for appointment, in the middle of a snowstorm, and found out that the scheduler had crashed and deleted my appointment. Hooray

There are many questions to which “because penis” is the right answer

“Why isn’t this sword the mightiest”?

The Olympic levels of mental gymnastics required to achieve such a response are gold level. I would seriously stand up and clap if his opinion wasn’t so disgusting.

@Kupo

That’s a new one… Virginities are used to grow the size of the dick? I am confused where he got that from. Is he assuming this because people featured in porn have larger than average dicks or because he feels his dick size isn’t satisfactory on account of the amount of sex he’s not having?

I’m pretty sure he’s never had sex with a real person. Not shaming his lack of experience though just in awe of the sheer lack of logic.

Am I the only one disturbed by the phrasing? A woman “experiences” a penis?

Ew.

There is so much more to good sex than the shape of your dick.

dr. ej:

Am I the only one disturbed by the phrasing? A woman “experiences” a penis?

It makes it sound like the penis is just passively there, like a sunset or some cheese.

Heaven forfend that women should have a basis of comparison between men.

“NO! They’re supposed to be ignorant of all dicks but me, me, ME!”

If you say so, Mr. Stupid Opinion POS, if you say so.

eataTree:
Me: Siri, what is “special pleading”?
Siri: (displays this Reddit post)
Me: Oh. I see. Now I understand. Thank you, Siri.
Siri: No problem.

Whenever I hear “no problem” I say “I love a challenge. What do I have to do to BE a problem?”

@WWTH:

I love it when “do your research” is paired with something completely wrong. It really elevates the fail.

Right up alongside “Your a idiot”, eh?

#EJ (TOO):

I fervently hope that nobody has to suffer through experiencing OpinionManVIP’s penis.

Someone probably did, and innocently asked if it was “in yet”.

I’m only guessing, but that probably is what brought this on.

“BECAUSE PENIS”

“This is how dicks get so huge, fucking godamnit.”

“Your virginity is used to grow the size of the dick”

Lol, and I’m the one who needs to do some research? Lololololforever

These people badly need to learn that porn comics and videos aren’t documentaries.

For the most part, these guys are such inept lovers I pity this guys flesh light

These guys are really overthinking the penis. The truth is, it isn’t nearly as important to most women as they’d like it to be, yet they continue to be surprised when it isn’t the center of the universe to us. They are offended when we won’t sleep with them just because their boner is sad. Sorry guys, your penis just isn’t that important to me! It doesn’t have life-changing powers.

Aw, hi WWTH! Nice to see ya. I am indeed back, and also maybe possibly signed in this time? Edit: Yessssss

Y’know, whenever I’ve heard the term “cock worship” before, it’s usually in the context of BDSM. I should remember that other people would use that phrase more … erm … creepily.

Okay that trailer was kinda terrible…

An off-topic question… is there a way to log in as a commenter here, or do I just have to keep filling out the little form? I swear I remember being logged in as a commenter back when I was slightly more active…

@Diego Duarte

Is he assuming this because people featured in porn have larger than average dicks or because he feels his dick size isn’t satisfactory on account of the amount of sex he’s not having?

Yes.

A two hour advertisement for a terrible book plus the same “ha ha, sometimes older people have sex!” jokes we’ve seen a thousand times before? Wow sign me up!

(Their all just Golden Girls wannabes)

@NateHevens

(Sorry I missed the edit window!) I’ve never been logged in but on my PC it will populate the form fields automatically, so I can just post. However if I am on another device I have to fill it out again.

@Moggie

dr. ej:

Am I the only one disturbed by the phrasing? A woman “experiences” a penis?

It makes it sound like the penis is just passively there, like a sunset or some cheese.

Snorted coffee; startled cats. Thanks for that!

I love that the next suggested video after that Book Club trailer was “10 best horror movies for 2018”.

(FYI the first paragraph has the genders switched)

Obviously women themselves aren’t a series of interchangeable holes, being people & all, & going down on women is always a different experience. But as a disabled woman with a paralyzed (but still really small) vagina, I kind of do hope most vaginas feel about the same to any given dick. That’s my biggest insecurity when it comes to group sex with a male lover.

I don’t know about you, but I love how this guy never considers the fact that a woman can be attracted to a man’s, I dunno, personality or something. I’d say that the d00d never quite learned to how to interact with actual human beings, but that’d be kind of an understatement.

Also:

It makes it sound like the penis is just passively there, like a sunset or some cheese.

The more times I read this, the funnier it gets.

If your ‘signature skill’ is the topography of your junk, then you ain’t shit. Like, cheating is wrong and all, but I ain’t entirely surprised in this case. Cos something tells me the angst here is autobigraphical, call it a hunch…

It might shock this guy to know that a vagina doesn’t register an awful lot of the shape of any given penis. A clitoris, on the other hand, doesn’t really care how big or small or straight or bent it is, as long as it rubs up against it.

But then again, this guy obviously hasn’t had any sex ed to speak of. Most men who subscribe to the “vaginas are molded by penises” myth haven’t.

Translation: “Because I’m really insecure about the size of my dick, because toxic masculinity tells me I have to have a large penis (and have cis women confirm that) in order to be considered a True Man. So, if a woman sleeps around, it’s possible she’s encountered a bigger dick than mine via Laws of Statistics. Therefore, feeeemales are all horrible for not telling me my penis is not only huge, but the HUGEST.”

Nevermind the fact that most women (from my own experience) don’t really care that much about the size of the ol’ ship, but care more about the captain of the ship. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Don’t get me wrong: I’ve identified myself as a “size queen” before, but that’s what dildos are for. If I care about my partner, I’m not really going to care about their genitalia specs, yanno?

Of course, trying to explain to this one that women actually care about men as people would only confuse him. I mean, he only views (cis) women as “interchangeable holes”, so why should he do anything but project that attitude upon women?

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