
Life is tough for dudes in our evil misandryarchy. Even dudes who just want to help littler dudes find themselves blocked by evil women.
Take, for example, the sad tale of a public-spirited MGTOWer who calls himself TheDisgruntledGentleman, and his thwarted attempt to join the Big Brother/Big Sister program. No, not the TV show, or the creepy dystopian leader/voyeur from 1984 — the mentoring program that pairs adults with at-risk kids. Let’s let him explain:
So, instead of just hand wringing about how males are targeted and denigrated within all aspects of life, I decided one way of trying to help would be to join the Big Brother Big Sister program. The first meeting I went to explained that there are twice as many boys looking for a match than there are girls. They said it was partly because more females than males volunteer. They didn’t mention how most boys have a mother in there life but no father because of the misandric divorce courts but I digress…
Oh, dear. We’re not off to a good start here.
Anyways, as part of the process, I had a one on one interview with a female member of the organisation to assess if I was suitable to be a Big, and if so, they wanted to know about me so they could match me with a little. I mentioned that I carry a firearm everywhere I legally can, I also wanted to know what protections were in place to protect me from unfounded accusations, and I expressed how I couldn’t be with a Little if his father had been forcibly removed from his life because of the vindictive actions of the mother. I think the final one sealed my fate however.
Yeah, why on earth would the program reject a gun-toting, woman-hating, self-described “disgruntled gentleman” whose only question for the organization, apparently, was about what would happen if he was accused of child molestation or abuse?
I’m not particularly upset at being rejected because after looking into it more, the activities deemed appropriate to do with your Little seem somewhat feminine, but it just further hammers home that even when you try to help because there are boys out there screaming for some positive male role models in there lives, you’re only allowed to show them masculine things that females deem are appropriate. It just makes me sick.
Hate to break it to you, dude, but you’re not actually a positive role model for anyone.
In the comments at MGTOWforums.com, where TheDisgruntledGentleman posted his tale of woe, others stepped forward to offer their own, er, critiques of the Big Brother program. “I’m really not surprised by the outcome of this at all,” wrote Mpav8r.
Basically, for our purposes, without intending any disrespect to the pious, we can compare the Big Brother service to a kind of prostitution agency, specializing in providing uber-manginas to attend to the fatherly duties of the harlot’s absconded alpha daddy, or the cuckolded beta wallet in exile; furthermore these manginas are free-range certified not to be paedophiles, or likely to have any real parental influence in lieu of the mother’s. Big Brothers is basically a volunteer organization that makes the logical connection between single moms and pathetic beta chumps trying to score brownie points, and attempts to exploit it for the perceived benefit of the children.
Most pathetic is the fact that these volunteers know for a fact that they will not be getting any tail as part of the deal. Unless you have a bleeding heart for abandoned bastards, you’d have to be a fool to waste your time on such a fool’s enterprise.
Based on what you said in your post, I would wager that the women in charge likely factored you as an armed misogynist pedophile with a chip on his shoulder. I would have gone wearing an old navy outfit and talked about flower arranging and self-esteem.
Relic, meanwhile, suggested that the best way to help out young boys today is for MGTOWers to keep being the woman-hating assholes they already are. Well, that’s a rough paraphrase. He phrased his advice slightly differently:
For me personally, I have zero interest in helping single mothers raise their kids. If she wanted a positive influence from a male, maybe she and her kind would not fuck us over at every turn so dad stays in the home. It’s only when society passes the breaking point things will get better for men. Stalling this only prolongs the suffering. Until then, I’m in the shadows.
I’m willing to bet that many men have been falsely accused of crimes trying to give back to these programs. No fucking way I would expose myself to that nightmare to help a single mother. Allow the whole thing to come crashing down while putting good information out there for truth seekers to get educated. It’s the absolute best thing we can do for boys.
I do agree that the best thing MGTOWers can do for boys is to stay as far away from them as possible.


Fair enough.
Wish I could continue this now but my corporate master is demanding my attention (do damn executives ever SLEEP? it’s Saturday night for goodnesss sake!)
Oh, and do I have to respect him because he claims he’s for women’s rights?
He’s still a damn boss.
….I think I broke Kitteh.
Opps!
pecunium, when I’m on my phone (but oddly NOT on my laptop) I have an option to reply to a particular comment.
Boring troll is boring.
How convenient that our hero, the brave dissident, suddenly has to work, just when zie was going to grace us with pearls of wisdom.
I think I’ll go back to Tiny Monsters.
Hit submit too soon.
Anyhoo, when that happens, the WP account of the person replied to gets a notification. I’m too lazy to do a screenprint. Or sleepy. I need to not make a lie of my G’night comment because I’ve been staying up too late!
Weak flounce, weakened further by obvious use to avoid having to actually make a point about anything. I mean, seriously, I’ve made more pro-gun arguments in this thread than he has. 1/10.
G’night cloudiah!
Does one have to make pro-gun statements to be a totes real feminist?
…um…
I know! “Sixteenth and seventeenth century guns are beautiful works of art.”
Anyone else notice the trollercoaster’s refusal to use the F-word?
I am truly shocked that Sir Trollsalot keeps encountering unfriendly responses wherever zie goes.
“trollercoaster” LOL!
Wow. Step away to avoid starving by kissing a little boss ass and people think it’s significant?
Fine . How’s this for something of substance ?
The guy described in the post is dangerous and shouldn’t be around children. Further I question how he passed the background check in the first place. However, the reflexive association of “bad person” with guns is a mistake.
The problem is not that people are armed but that THIS man was armed.
At a time when I lived in a state with heavy weapons restrictions, I attended a defense rally at a womens clinic, and escorted patients past crazed antiabortion fanatics.
Personally, I wish some of us had been armed. Every time one of them came near me or one of the patients we were escorting I started thinking about Dr. Tiller.
He didn’t do so well, being unarmed.
And for whoever it was that thought it was significant that I did not curse, allow me to say, “Fuck.”
I’d recite the whole George Carlin 7 words routine for tthem but I can never get them in the right order.
connection of guns to his danger
FAIL FAIL SO MUCH FAIL
Okay, I’ll bite. How the hell would have carrying a gun have helped Dr Tiller? He was shot down while serving as an usher at a church service. Do you really think he’d have been able to whip out his gun and shoot someone who was already about to shoot him?
Wow. That’s your answer to what I had to write?
You make me feel a lot better about my own earlier stupidity.
Thanks for the reassurance even if it was unintended.
I open it to the audience: What F word has trollersons conspicuously refused to use?
Can’t answer, eh? It’s a real question, O knowledgable gun-lover. Remember, some of us live in non-gun-owning countries and like it that way. Reading the circumstances of Dr Tiller’s murder doesn’t suggest that he’d have had the opportunity to save himself via some sort of shootout. So, how is carrying a gun supposed to have helped him?
Your pretence of engaging hasn’t lasted very long, has it? And you’re still more interested in making this about DON’T TAKE MY GUNS than anything else.
katz:
Feline!
What, you don’t think that if Tiller had been trained to special ops standards (as of course all gun carriers are) he’d still be alive? These are genius arguments that Sir Trollsalot is making here!
I notice that our friend is as allergic to conversation with pecunium as zie is to the word “feminism”.
Wrong! XD
@ Kittehs
Shootout at the OK Chapel? Sounds totally realistic and probable, how dare you mock?
Oops! Kitteh was wrong (and I assume, joking); Cassandra was, of course, correct.
But we were both right! Trollcoaster (I am so stealing that) won’t say Feline or Feminism.
::lashes tail around, growls::
The Gunfight at the OK Chapel sounds at least as plausible as the Bunfight at the OK Tearooms, I’ll give it that much.
Also, appropriating the death of a brave and dedicated man in an attempt to fuel your little vendetta against people who don’t like guns? Classy.