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Incel creep: “A woman getting angry because her husband “””raped””” her is like a dog getting mad that its owner pet him”

What did that incel just say?

By David Futrelle

Add “marital rape” to the long list of things that incels don’t — or won’t — understand.

Yesterday, a prolific Incels.co commenter called Vermilioncore offered his take on this issue that directly affects roughly zero percent of all incels.

Lots of women claim that they are raped by their husbands but that’s just not possible.

Not a promising start.

How are you going to be raped by the man you are supposed to be fucking 24/7?

I often wonder if particular incels have ever even spoken to a woman they’re not related to; in this case I wonder if Vermilioncore has ever met a married person.

It’s impossible for a wife to be raped by her husband. He has permission to have sex with her because they are married. Even if she’s sleeping, she shouldn’t get mad if her husband starts fucking her in the middle of the night. 

Somehow I can’t imagine Vermilioncore being too happy if someone penetrated him while he was sleeping, even if he were married to them.

A woman getting angry because her husband “””raped””” her is like a dog getting mad that its owner pet him.

I’m pretty sure even dogs wouldn’t agree with him on this one.

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Naglfar
Naglfar
5 years ago

My dog gets mad if I pet her when she doesn’t want to be petted. I think most dogs do. And when she does, I stop petting, as one should.
Anyway, incels don’t want marital rape to be a crime because they want enforced monogamy forced upon women to marry them, then they want to rape those women.
Yet another reason I can’t feel sorry for incels: because if they ever do get relationships they will be abusive shitheads.

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

@Naglfar beat me to it. This person hasn’t learned how to interact with humans or pets, it seems.

Gaebolga
Gaebolga
5 years ago

Dumbshit wrote:

How are you going to be raped by the man you are supposed to be fucking 24/7?

Even when he’s at work?

Isn’t she supposed to be at home in dumbshit’s little derptopia?

Ignorant fuckstains gotta ignorant, I guess….

Moggie
Moggie
5 years ago

Fucking 24/7 sounds horrifying for all involved, like an x-rated version of the “red shoes” fairy tale.

Victorious Parasol
Victorious Parasol
5 years ago

Co-signing what Naglfar and kupo have said.

And yeah, that’s “red shoes” territory, Moggie. Sex is great. But you need to take breaks to eat, drink, shower, and OH YEAH let your neuromuscular system recover!

I’m going to refrain from getting too deep into TMI, but trust me. You CAN have sex too frequently, and it’s no fun.

Hexum7
Hexum7
5 years ago

holy crap.

These guys shouldn’t be able to own pets, let alone be entitled to a sexual partner

There was a new to me term in that thread; one mentioned something about “IT”s being triggered by it, and then the one sane-ish poster who tried to explain that any spouse can be raped, was labled an “IT”

Does anyone know what that is supposed to mean? I would imagine it might refer to, ”InTelligent enough to see through our crap” , but I that level of self- awareness would be way beyond the incel community

kupo
kupo
5 years ago

@Hexum7
IT = IncelTears, a subreddit that mocks incels. Calling someone an IT is accusing them of being a poster on that subreddit (or someone who holds the same anti-incel views, like those of us on this blog). So basically you’re right. 😉

Knitting Cat Lady
Knitting Cat Lady
5 years ago

Never had a dog.

But with cats you learn pretty fast what the signs for no more petting are.

Cause cat will scratch and bite you if you don’t stop when it has enough.

And anyway. I wonder what the shit for brains asshole would say if a partner would penetrate them in their sleep. With a strap on, if need be.

Incels suck. They need professional help to undo their cranio-rectal invasion.

mothkiller
mothkiller
5 years ago

So, I had not heard of “The Red Shoes” before. Look it up, see it’s by Hans Christian Andersen. I guess something grusome happens to a girl. I am correct.

Hans Christian Andersen creeps me out.

mothkiller
mothkiller
5 years ago

And yeah, I would pet my cat until she obviously wanted me to stop. If I continued she would bite me.

I am not surprised they think that marital rape is not a thing. I am pretty sure they believe rape is not a thing.

Gaebolga
Gaebolga
5 years ago

I think I’m going to decide that incels aren’t a thing.

If only that would actually work…

Victorious Parasol
Victorious Parasol
5 years ago

@ mothkiller

It’s also a rather good film. But going back to the original HCA tale, it’s about a girl who loved to dance, and who danced herself to death.

Trailer from the movie. Recommended for all who are interested in ballet and stories about when a woman has to choose between professional success and personal happiness.

danielrigal
danielrigal
5 years ago

Fucking hell!

Sorry. I haven’t got anything insightful here. Just that.

numerobis
numerobis
5 years ago

So close to fundamentally understanding consent… but no.

Buttercup Q. Skullpants
Buttercup Q. Skullpants
5 years ago

Okay, incels. If you’re going to demand the right to rape your wife 24/7, then she has the right to demand that you support her 24/7. It’s only fair. That means three 8-hour work shifts a day, at multiple jobs if necessary, with no sick days or time off (remember, you’re never allowed to be “not in the mood”).

Marriage also grants your wife unlimited 24/7 access to your credit card and bank account, which she will hopefully use to buy a one-way plane ticket to someplace far, far away from you.

(I’m not personally endorsing this arrangement, of course. It’s just that they never follow their own logic to its natural conclusion. They always stop at the place where it benefits them, and them only.)

Ooglyboggles
5 years ago

Ah old timey sexism where marital rape isn’t a valid concept in ye olde Incel Minds.

Brandy
Brandy
5 years ago

Some good news for the thread:

I’m only an occasional poster, but some of you will know that I’m trans. I’m a high school teacher, and tomorrow is day one for me to teach as my authentic self. I’m really excited, a little nervous, and I’m *happy*.

Nequam
Nequam
5 years ago

I guess this incel hasn’t heard of the refractory period.
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Ooglyboggles
5 years ago

@Brandy
Congratulations Brandy! I hope things go well in your career as an openly trans person!

Monday Middlemarch
Monday Middlemarch
5 years ago

“A woman getting angry because her husband “””raped””” her is like a dog getting mad that its owner pet him.”

So, lemme understand this, the women are dogs in the analogy? A non-human possession, without agency over her own body? The men are the owners in the analogy. Human, with all the power and entitlement to take sex from his wife whenever he wants with no complaint from her.

This incel sounds like an alien who hatched out of a pod fully grown and had never, ever seen an actual het marriage in real life on this planet.

P.S. I don’t consider dogs possessions, they are sweet, adopted family members who we are privileged to share a home with. We don’t have dog at the moment, but I know that my husband has treated his late dogs (RIP Georgia & Savannah) better than this guy would treat a wife.

Phaos
5 years ago

@Brandy:

Good luck, I hope it goes well!

And lol, one of our now-deceased dogs (RIP) would bite you for petting her, because her hair was really wiry and any petting at all would pull it and hurt her.

Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
5 years ago

Guys who abuse animals are likely to abuse women.

Guys who abuse women are likely to abuse animals.

That’s because these guys are horrible at being human.

Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
5 years ago

@David F.

Somehow I can’t imagine Vermilioncore being too happy if someone penetrated him while he was sleeping, even if he were married to them.

Fairness has no place in incels’ worldview. I had to say it. For the newbies.

A woman getting angry because her husband “””raped””” her is like a dog getting mad that its owner pet him.

I’m fascinated by this incel’s use of quote marks. Was there a sale on quote marks? With an even deeper discount on backward quote marks?

I’m pretty sure even dogs wouldn’t agree with him on this one.

You are the king of the understatement.

Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile
5 years ago

@Brandy
All best wishes on your exciting new adventure.

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