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Mailbag: Calling self-identified incels incels is oppression. And so is laughing

 October 4, 2019
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By David Futrelle

In today’s mailbag — well, technically, today’s comment moderation queue — a self-described Russian socialist informs me that describing the people who congregate on the Incels.me forum (now Incels.co) as incels is oppression.

Russian socialist here.
It’s kinda funny how western mainstream left uses word incel (involuntary celibate) to attack everyone who don’t like them.

He’s responding to a post of mine about people who identify themselves as incels, and who post on a forum run by self-identified incels with incel in its title.

Fun fact: all of tras people and homosexuals are in fact involuntary celibates, because they cannot to produce children normally.

Celibacy means abstaining from sex. It’s not a fancy word for “infertile.” Also, trans men can get pregnant and have babies if they have working uteruses, same as cis women.

And there is a lot of unlucky women what are also incels.

This is true — and indeed the term was invented by a “involuntarily celibate” woman — though at this point I can’t imagine many women still use the word “incels” to describe themselves, considering what male incels have done to the term’s reputation.

Using word incel against alt-right is like using N-word against Alt-right. You can try to justify it, yet you are still a bad person for doing so.

Incels call themselves incels. Calling them what they call themselves as is not oppression.

You know what is oppression — at least according to someone else who tried to post a comment on an incel-related post on this blog today? Laughing. Not just laughing at incel illogic. Laughing period.

“SJWs” do ruin comedy. And that’s a good thing.

Not true and also not true.

You know what laughter is? It’s the sound our monkey ancestors used to make as an “all clear” signal to tell other members of the tribe something was safe, like if they thought a rustling in the bushes was a predator but it turned out to be the wind.

Nah. If it ever mean that, and I rather doubt it did, it doesn’t mean that now. Laughter cam mean a lot of things. I laugh at trolls who say ridiculous things. Babies laugh playing peek-a-boo.

In today’s world nobody is safe except the predators. Every pleasure comes at the expense of somebody else’s pain. If somebody has it in them to laugh, to be happy, to feel safe, they’re an oppressor.

Nobody deserves to laugh until everyone can.

Wow. If this person isn’t straight-up trolling, they really woke up on the wrong side of everything today. Everyone laughs. Even the most oppressed people on earth laugh; indeed, many oppressed cultures have rich traditions of humor. You know who doesn’t have much of a sense of humor? People who decide that they’re oppressed despite not being oppressed. Like incels and Men’s Rights Activists and Jordan Peterson fans.

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  1. Miri Rabinowitz says:
    October 4, 2019 at 1:27 pm

    Honestly this reminds me of terfs saying that terf is a slur.

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  2. Naglfar says:
    October 4, 2019 at 1:34 pm

    Celibacy means abstaining from sex. It’s not a fancy word for “infertile.” Also, trans men can get pregnant and have babies if they have working uteruses, same as cis women.

    Also, some cis people are infertile, either by birth, disease, or surgery. I know plenty of people who are sterile but have sex. In fact, some of them chose to be sterilized by vasectomy or tube tying so they could have sex without having children.

    Even the most oppressed people on earth laugh; indeed, many oppressed cultures have rich traditions of humor.

    As a Jew (and someone who enjoys and occasionally participates in the rich tradition of Jewish comedy), I feel like for many oppressed cultures humor is a coping mechanism.

    Sort of related: I’ve heard about trans men getting pregnant, but doesn’t taking additional testosterone interfere with ovulation and pregnancy? How does this work?

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  3. Tabby Lavalamp says:
    October 4, 2019 at 1:38 pm

    Using word incel against alt-right is like using N-word against Alt-right. You can try to justify it, yet you are still a bad person for doing so.

    I agree with the troll. You are a bad person if you’re calling the alt-right the n-word.

    (I know, I know, it’s obviously not his first language, but he’s so full of it I don’t feel bad about it this time.)

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  4. KindaSortaHarmless says:
    October 4, 2019 at 1:46 pm

    @Tabby Lavalamp

    I was wondering if that was just my brain playing sillybuggers with me. Who’s calling the alt-right the n-word?

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  5. TacticalProgressive says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:03 pm

    @KindaSortaHarmless

    I was wondering if that was just my brain playing sillybuggers with me. Who’s calling the alt-right the n-word?

    Well the only example that comes to mind at the moment of people calling the alt-right the n-word would at this time be found in Sargon of Akkad, a smug, psudorational, psudointellectual, fascist and right wing neo-reactionary enabling, conspiracy peddling, anti-femnist, alt-right entry point.

    In that instance he tried to call a group of alt-righters and whit supremacist’s as the “n-word” as well as homophobic slurs, among other nonsense and ugliness. I have heard how some Conservatives and Republicans claim that “he’s a classic liberal who talks sense” but as I have seen of that argument it just means “a socially Conservative grifter who is too much a coward to actually self identify Conservative and who wants to drag left wingers into the mud”.

    My Republican friend watches his stuff and while my Republican friend is, despite some of our disagreements on a few of the obvious subjects, a half way decent, semi-moderate guy; the fact he is suckered by Sargon of Akkad and his obvious horribleness and nonsense is disheartening.

    But as far as the Incel in denial goes; “even a stopped clock is right twice a day”; but it doesn’t make that clock any less a broken potato.

    https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Sargon_of_Akkad

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  6. Masse_Mysteria says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:06 pm

    @Naglfar
    I’ve been under the impression that trans men stop taking testosterone for the duration of pregnancy. It’s possible to become pregnant while taking testosterone (lack of menstruation alone doesn’t make you infertile), but you’re supposed to stop taking testosterone immediately if you find out you’re pregnant and would like to keep the child.

    This is what I’ve heard concerning those once a month / fortnight type of testosterone treatments. I don’t know if it’s different if you take the stuff that’s effective for longer periods of time.

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  7. Cyborgette says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:13 pm

    Re: trans masc pregnancy

    Testosterone is not perfect birth control, and neither is feminine HRT. There are people in my circles who have gotten pregnant *by accident* while on T, with trans fem partners who were on HRT and had fully suppressed T levels.

    This is important, and people should be aware of it.

    Re: the OP


    If somebody has it in them to laugh, to be happy, to feel safe, they’re an oppressor.

    This kind of zero-sum edgelord thinking can be a sign of depression, but it can also be a sign of being a predator. Guess which I think is more likely for Mr. Incel-Apologist Brocialist above.

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  8. Gaebolga says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:20 pm

    I apologize in advance, but my English prof/copyeditor’s soul demands justice.

    David Futrelle wrote:

    Incels call themselves incels. Calling them what they call themselves as is not oppression.

    David Futrelle wrote:

    Nah. If it ever mean[t] that, and I rather doubt it did, it doesn’t mean that now. Laughter cam[n] mean a lot of things.

    …I’m so sorry.

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  9. Naglfar says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:20 pm

    @TacticalProgressive

    Sargon of Akkad, a smug, psudorational, psudointellectual, fascist and right wing neo-reactionary enabling, conspiracy peddling, anti-femnist, alt-right entry point.

    Well put. And a partridge in a pear tree.

    I have heard how some Conservatives and Republicans claim that “he’s a classic liberal who talks sense” but as I have seen of that argument it just means “a socially Conservative grifter who is too much a coward to actually self identify Conservative and who wants to drag left wingers into the mud”.

    Most self-identified ‘classical liberals’ that I know are right-libertarians who like to pretend they’re progressive while supporting conservatives exclusively. Much like other libertarians, they are total hypocrites. As well, it seems many of them like to say they are “the real liberals” and accuse actual liberals and people on the left of being fake.

    @Masse_Mysteria
    That would make sense. The reason I was wondering is I know that cis women with high testosterone (such as from PCOS other other causes) often have trouble getting pregnant.

    @Cyborgette
    I was under the impression that people on HRT become sterile, so I didn’t know that. I recall hearing somewhere that trans women who want to have biological children should bank sperm before starting HRT, so I imagine that sterility is still a possible outcome.

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  10. Cyborgette says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:32 pm

    @Naglfar

    Yeah, no, people on HRT can become sterile but AFAIK usually don’t. Sperm banking is to make things easier, accidental pregnancies still happen sometimes regardless. Shutting down human gonads completely is hard. (And trans women really need to be aware of this IMO, because for us it’s a responsibility thing re: not harming others.)

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  11. Lawrence says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:35 pm

    “Nobody deserves to laugh until everyone can.”
    That’s so emo it makes How Soon Is Now? sound like the Monkees theme.

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  12. Malice W Underland says:
    October 4, 2019 at 2:51 pm

    Re. the N-word: I think they mean Nazi. Poor alt-right dears; it must be so upsetting to be compared to a group of racist, sexist, homophobic, authority-worshipping reactionaries.

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  13. Moggie says:
    October 4, 2019 at 3:40 pm

    Yeah, I don’t know whether the alt-right is trying to rebrand “Nazi” as “the n-word”, but it wouldn’t surprise me. It’s the sort of shitty tactic I expect from them.

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  14. solecism says:
    October 4, 2019 at 3:40 pm

    You know what laughter is? It’s the sound our monkey ancestors used to make as an “all clear” signal to tell other members of the tribe something was safe, like if they thought a rustling in the bushes was a predator but it turned out to be the wind.

    That’s some nice evo-psych bullshit right there. Also, I guess this person has never seen dogs, or otters, or plenty of other animals laughing. It doesn’t have to be loud and vocal to be an expression of fun or joy. And frankly, most humor has nothing to do with the relief of realizing a fear is unfounded. It’s not even very good evo-psych.

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  15. Moggie says:
    October 4, 2019 at 3:56 pm

    Equating inceldom with the alt-right seems like a self-own. If incels were simply “involuntary celibates”, wouldn’t we expect incel spaces to contain people from across the entire political spectrum?

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  16. Talonknife says:
    October 4, 2019 at 4:29 pm

    As a Jew (and someone who enjoys and occasionally participates in the rich tradition of Jewish comedy), I feel like for many oppressed cultures humor is a coping mechanism.

    You know what they say: tragedy + time = comedy, and the Jewish people have had plenty of both.

    OT, since I know we have some Mammotheers that are fans of My Little Pony Wizards of the Coast has created a set of My Little Pony Magic the Gathering cards (called Ponies: the Galloping) to commemorate the final season of the show and support the Extra Life charity. It’s $50 for the three-card set with $30 of the proceeds going to the Seattle Children’s Hospital.

    https://magic.wizards.com/en/articles/archive/news/magic-extra-life-2019-10-03

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  17. Nequam says:
    October 4, 2019 at 5:02 pm

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  18. weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee says:
    October 4, 2019 at 5:25 pm

    The only political label that’s a bigger red flag than ‘classical liberal’ is ‘ancap.’ No one good ever identifies as those things.

    Anyway, do all pleasures come at someone else’s expense, or just sexual pleasures? Who’s being harmed if it’s late spring, the lilacs are blooming and I take pleasure in the sight and smell of the flowers? Who’s being harmed if my cat snuggles with me and purrs and I take pleasure in the sound and her soft fur?

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  19. Betrayer says:
    October 4, 2019 at 5:40 pm

    Joyless socialists are the worst. Like that twitter personality who claimed all movies and TV shows are fascist propaganda and enjoying them means you aren’t a real leftist.

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  20. CarrieV says:
    October 4, 2019 at 5:43 pm

    re: “Everyone laughs. Even the most oppressed people on earth laugh;”

    Hmm. Although I ultimately can’t argue that point, I can say that many of us can hold off laughing, voluntarily or involuntarily, for a very long time.

    I hadn’t laughed at all in the months after Crooked Donald’s installation as POtuS. But *many months later*, the divine Melissa McCarthy opened Saturday Night Live as Sean “Spicy” Spicer and I felt joy again. I vividly remember my face hurting from smiling and laughing after all of those months doing neither. The next day I went to YouTube and found the sketch and watched it infinity times. It never got less funny.

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  21. Fishy Goat says:
    October 4, 2019 at 5:47 pm

    Hey OP:

    http://gph.is/1aeU8Lr

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  22. Cyborgette says:
    October 4, 2019 at 5:55 pm

    @WWTH

    Cats are, like, the ultimate disproof of zero-sum thinking. I love cats.

    @Betrayer

    90% of the time that kind of reflexive negativity and criticism is part of an abusive complex, IMO. They like to implode other people’s joy because it expands their personal power over others.

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  23. Naglfar says:
    October 4, 2019 at 6:15 pm

    @Cyborgette
    Good to know. Thank you for correcting my misunderstanding.

    (This is in response to the comment about HRT, not the one about cats)

    @CarrieV
    I know the exact sketch you’re talking about. I will say, for me SNL made life a lot better during the first few months of Trump. I was much more depressed than usual, and I binge watched lots of comedy. Mostly SNL, but I also enjoyed other sources like The Daily Show with Trevor Noah.

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  24. Lainy says:
    October 4, 2019 at 6:40 pm

    *deep breath*

    WE DON’T COME FROM MONKEYS YOU DUMBASS. WE ARE AN APE PRIMATE. WE ARE STILL APES. JUST APES WITH COMPLEX COMUNCICATION ABILITIES AND LESS HAIR.

    And unclinch

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  25. Naglfar says:
    October 4, 2019 at 6:46 pm

    Nobody deserves to laugh until everyone can.

    I would guess this is a troll trying to mock socialism or communism by deliberate misinterpretation.

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  26. Allandrel says:
    October 4, 2019 at 6:48 pm

    @Naglfar

    Most self-identified ‘classical liberals’ that I know are right-libertarians who like to pretend they’re progressive while supporting conservatives exclusively. Much like other libertarians, they are total hypocrites.

    Oh, yes. EVERY libertarian/”classical liberal” I have encountered who claimed to be “fiscally conservative but socially liberal” has consistently supported a straight conservative ticket.

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  27. Dreamer says:
    October 4, 2019 at 7:32 pm

    There are scientists who study if and why animals laugh. Apparently rats giggle when tickled and run back for more. Reading stories about rats giggling makes me giggle. Confession : jealous of scientists involved in the research. I know I don’t have the knowledge of animal behavior but how sweet is figuring out what makes animals laugh?

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  28. Alan Robertshaw says:
    October 4, 2019 at 8:04 pm

    @ dreamer

    Animals having fun, just for the sake of it, is one of my favourite things in the world.

    Did you see all the stories about rats playing hide and seek with humans? Seems they love it. They kept playing even when there were no ‘incentives’ other than just playing the game.

    https://science.sciencemag.org/content/365/6458/1180

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  29. Naglfar says:
    October 4, 2019 at 8:30 pm

    @Allandrel

    Oh, yes. EVERY libertarian/”classical liberal” I have encountered who claimed to be “fiscally conservative but socially liberal” has consistently supported a straight conservative ticket.

    I’ve seen the exact same thing. They usually throw in some crap about how they’re the only real alternative to a 2 party system. And when you grill them on their socially liberal views, they generally display ignorance at best or bigotry at worst. Or they’ll say something about how they personally are ok with abortion or gay marriage, but you wouldn’t know it from their voting history.

    Even when libertarians are “ok” with gay marriage or abortion or similar issues, it’s just that. It’s that they don’t care one way or the other. Hence they never elect politicians who protect these rights, because it’s all the same to them. Gay marriage or no gay marriage, abortion or no abortion, they don’t care.

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  30. Skye says:
    October 4, 2019 at 8:58 pm

    Dreamer and Alan, for some reason the idea of scientists tickling rats and playing hide and seek with them has made my week. Thank you both for that.

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  31. Hippodameia says:
    October 4, 2019 at 9:03 pm

    I think I’ll go oppress the entire world by watching Laurel and Hardy carry a piano up and down a long flight of stairs.

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  32. Buttercup Q. Skullpants says:
    October 4, 2019 at 10:27 pm

    You know what laughter is? It’s the sound our monkey ancestors used to make as an “all clear” signal to tell other members of the tribe something was safe,

    Actually, laughter is the sound that occurs when someone claims that monkeys live in tribes.

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  33. Sophy Cooper says:
    October 4, 2019 at 10:31 pm

    All I can think of now is a Monty Python peasant yelling, ‘Help! I’m being oppressed!”

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  34. Betrayer says:
    October 4, 2019 at 10:39 pm

    It’s tempting to assume they are a troll, but sadly I do know some real socialists who are joyless bastards and insist that everyone else should be too.

    They aren’t as bad as the post-left bigots, but they are really frustrating to be around. How on Earth they expect to convince people to join them when it means being miserable 24/7 is beyond me.

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  35. cat says:
    October 4, 2019 at 10:42 pm

    hey all i know we’ve established now that HRT doesn’t prevent pregnancy but i just want to throw one more thought out there… not all trans people are necessarily on HRT!

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  36. Betrayer says:
    October 4, 2019 at 10:48 pm

    Although on the subject of right-wingers pretending to be socialists, apparently the “eat the babies” shouting lady was planted by a right-wing cult that doesn’t believe climate change is real.

    https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2019/10/04/fringe-group-planned-eat-babies-stunt-aoc-town-hall/3869116002/

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  37. Dreamer says:
    October 4, 2019 at 11:21 pm

    I’ve had pet rats. They definitely have a sense of humor as do my cats. My friends’ dogs laugh in dawg language. Cat humor tends to be sarcastic. One cat of mine smacks me if I try baby talk but purrs when I tell her she’s a naughty smart azz, lol! I suspect she’s feminist.

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  38. weirwoodtreehugger: chief manatee says:
    October 4, 2019 at 11:56 pm

    My cat, Darrow used to take down my Obama window sign during the 2008 elections. I figure he isn’t a Republican because he’s too sweet and chill. So I think he’s a anarchist. Clarence Darrow did criticize the New Deal for being too corporate, so it tracks.

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  39. Crip Dyke says:
    October 5, 2019 at 12:01 am

    @Naglfar:

    I was under the impression that people on HRT become sterile, so I didn’t know that. I recall hearing somewhere that trans women who want to have biological children should bank sperm before starting HRT, so I imagine that sterility is still a possible outcome.

    So, it is **possible** that MtF trans* folk might become irreversibly sterile after a few years on HRT. Most MtF trans* folk become reversibly sterile (I don’t know exact numbers, but I understand that becoming permanently sterile is relatively rare, or at least uncommon, but the odds increase the longer you’re on hormones).

    However even if your sterility is reversible, producing fertile, motile sperm is a multi-week process, usually taking about 3 months. Also production doesn’t start immediately after you skip a dose for the first time. It can take a while for sperm production to begin again, so tests to see if your sterility was reversible aren’t even reliable for about 6 months after cessation of HRT.

    Very few people are willing to stop HRT for 6 months after they’ve started. Sure there are some, but not many. And to be perfectly honest, so much changes with your body – much more than just what’s visible to others – that I don’t think you can reliably predict whether or not you would be okay with stopping for 6 months until after you really feel what it’s like to be on it.

    So even if you THINK you might be willing to go off HRT for 6 months,
    1) those feelings might change, and drastically, and
    2) it may not help anyway, because there’s a chance the sterility isn’t reversible, even though for the majority of people it is

    So banking sperm can be a good idea since what if you fall into the majority of people who are unwilling to go off HRT or the minority that are willing to go off but find out they’re permanently sterile? Given that neither of these is entirely predictable, if you want to have kids that are genetically related to you, the “just in case” plan should be banking rather than assuming you can go off hormones later.

    Of course, I think having kids genetically related to you is entirely overrated and humans are over-reproducing anyway, so why not adopt? Or be a loving step-parent? Or be the cool auntie to your neiphlings?

    Anyway, these are things I’ve learned from my life as a Jewish trans* woman, who got pressure from family about continuing to reproduce and the “selfishness” of not caring about passing on my genes.

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  40. Big Titty Demon says:
    October 5, 2019 at 2:28 am

    @Crip Dyke

    Or be the cool auntie to your neiphlings?

    This is the route I went, and it has worked out very well for me. I have been reliably informed that I am “the best auntie in the whole wide world”. 😄

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  41. Masse_Mysteria says:
    October 5, 2019 at 3:09 am

    @cat
    You’re right about that.

    It’s kind of sad that the idea of a “proper” trans person seems to only include those who are medically transitioning (or looking to do that, if currently unable).

    I should probably start including something about that in my routine answers when people are puzzled that to hear about a trans man giving birth. I understand that this is not something people are familiar with, but it kind of irks me when saying testosterone doesn’t make one sterile just raises more questions. Why would you have sex that could make you pregnant if you’re “supposedly” a man??

    Um, because people can enjoy a variety of things regardless of their gender identity? And also, if you’re not having sex with them, it’s really not any of your business how they choose to do it.

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  42. Kat, ambassador of the feminist government in exile says:
    October 5, 2019 at 4:21 am

    Nobody deserves to laugh until everyone can.

    Dude, I understand that you’re desperate for attention, so you wrote a bunch of BS. But could you also be just a little bit funny?

    Thanking you in advance.

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  43. Bakunin says:
    October 5, 2019 at 4:41 am

    The number of doctors who act like HRT will completely destroy your sex drive and (for feminizing hormones) make penetrative sex impossible is a disservice.

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  44. Naglfar says:
    October 5, 2019 at 6:22 am

    @cat, Masse_Mysteria
    Sorry if what I said implied that people need to medically transition. This was not my intention. I was curious about the effect of masculine HRT on pregnancy and should have phrased it better.

    @Crip Dyke
    Thank you for the detailed answer. This is potentially relevant to me, as I’m an AMAB person who has identified as non-binary for several years but am not really sure what gender I am and lately have been beginning to think I might be trans female. I do want biological children one day, so this is something to keep in mind.

    @Bakunin
    I recall overhearing a doctor say something to that effect and then thinking that it didn’t make much sense. I mean, many cis women seem to have sex drives and so I don’t see how trans women on HRT would be any different. I’m guessing it’s because the doctors want to scare people away from transitioning.

    I notice some commenters putting an asterisk after “trans*.” I’m not in the habit of doing this, but should I do this? I haven’t seen it before, but can definitely start adding asterisks if needed.

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  45. Shadowplay says:
    October 5, 2019 at 7:33 am

    I recall overhearing a doctor say something to that effect and then thinking that it didn’t make much sense. I mean, many cis women seem to have sex drives and so I don’t see how trans women on HRT would be any different.

    It’s an old and very inaccurate mode of thought, dating all the way back to the discovery of “sex” hormones. The initial thought, based mostly on cultural assumptions, was that testosterone and oestrogen are total antagonists – if you have an abundance of one, all effects of the other will be obliterated.
    Not true, of course. Biology is never that simple.

    Know this because it were still being taught as gospel truth in the early 80s (way back when I had a course of endocrinology lectures). It should be long since gone – but medicine dislikes change and it’s lecturers are usually old and set in their thinking.

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  46. Buttercup Q. Skullpants says:
    October 5, 2019 at 7:46 am

    an “all clear” signal to tell other members of the tribe something was safe,

    Except that the incels, neo-Nazis and MGTOWs we laugh at aren’t safe people. That rustling in the bushes actually is a predator.

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  47. Jenora Feuer says:
    October 5, 2019 at 8:48 am

    @Betrayer:
    Oh good lord the woman was a LaRouchie. I guess even the man being dead hasn’t stopped that particular clown car of American politics from careening wildly about.

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  48. Viscaria says:
    October 5, 2019 at 10:04 am

    I want to laugh at Commenter #1’s very incorrect opinions, particularly (but not exclusively) their apparent belief that cis gay men, cis lesbians, and all trans people are all incapable of traditional conception, but Commenter #2 has taught me that laughter is wrong. Now I don’t know what to do!

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  49. Jesalin, Goddess of Lust & Pleasure says:
    October 5, 2019 at 1:02 pm

    The number of doctors who act like HRT will completely destroy your sex drive and (for feminizing hormones) make penetrative sex impossible is a disservice.

    I suspect it’s mainly a ‘cover their ass’ type of thing. Well that and a lack of knowledge.

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  50. Jesalin, Goddess of Lust & Pleasure says:
    October 5, 2019 at 1:20 pm

    I recall overhearing a doctor say something to that effect and then thinking that it didn’t make much sense. I mean, many cis women seem to have sex drives and so I don’t see how trans women on HRT would be any different. I’m guessing it’s because the doctors want to scare people away from transitioning.

    There might be some of that, but I think it’s a combination of CYA and a lack of knowledge. Possibly also some confusion of correlation and causation.

    When I started on HRT my drive dropped from about 20 (on a 10 point scale) to a 1. That wasn’t solely due to the T blocker though, I think a very large part of it was simply because I loathed my genitals. After bottom surgery my drive mostly came back, though a lil modified (modifications that I really like).

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